It’s Finally The Weekend!!
Every week I come across so many informative articles, funny and inspiring quotes, and cool websites. It’s impossible to post them all on my facebook page, so here’s what I came across this week.
Have a great weekend!
33 of the Deepest and Coolest Thoughts About Life, by Single Dad Laughing
SDL asked his readers to share their coolest thoughts about life they have had or heard. There are some really good ones, but here are a few of my favorites:
“When I was a teenager my mom told me that there were 2 things in life that would eventually become apparent to me: 1.Not everyone likes you and 2.You’ve stopped caring.”
“I hope to one day be the person my children see me to be.”
“You’ve got to have a little rain before a rainbow.”
How Kids Can Save Your Marriage, by Dr. Craig Malkin on Psychology Today
Dr. Malkin brings up some really good points about marriage and kids. Good read!
Kids invade your bedroom. They rule your schedule. They dictate where you go and how you spend your time. They spark squabbles over matters as trivial as where to put all the stuffed animals or which living room arrangement will lead to the fewest head injuries (the correct answer, by the way, is to remove all the furniture and sit on bean bags). Despite all this, I have one simple message to share: Kids don’t kill marriages; adults do.
Taming the “Nasties” In Your Children, by help4yourfamily
Kate Oliver, a Clinical Social Worker, reminds us to consider why our kids are behaving negatively. Many times we assume it’s because they are just acting out, but she offers some alternative reasons that we should keep in mind as well.
The first thing to do when the nasties are tearing through your house is to assess what is causing the nasty behavior. I had a professor once that said the most important piece in addressing any behavior is to find out it’s cause, and while you may not be very curious about the root of the problem when your child is yelling at you, perhaps I can persuade you by pointing out that figuring out the root cause is way more pleasant for you than beating yourself up over having such a mean child. Here are some ideas to take into consideration when you are trying to figure out what is going on:
“What To Do” Guides For Your Kids, by Houston Family Psychology
I have never heard of these books before, but definitely think they are worth checking out. Thanks Dr. Weiss!
Did you know that your body is like a car that you need to learn how to steer, worries are like tomatoes that grow when they’re fed, and disappointments are like hurdles to be jumped? By the time you’re done with these books, you will! Using these and other similarly accessible analogies, Dr. Huebner brings the concepts of cognitive behavioral therapy to life, making them easy to understand and fun to practice.
IKEA Shelves Turned On Side Make Great Shelving, by IHeart Organizing
What a cool idea! I pinned this on Pinterest, where I find so many great ideas. This would work well in a play therapy room or child’s room and less expensive than building a bench with shelving underneath!